*Tips are sorted in no particular order and can be done separately.
Read time: approximately 9 minutes
7 Simple Ways to Become More Creative in Your Sex Life
Why should you be more creative in bed?
Or do you feel like you’ve tried them all, and that there are no new kinky sex positions left for you to discover?
If so, then probably you have hit a mental wall by thinking that there is nothing new to try. Or maybe you want to try something new, but are afraid your partner would not like it?
Anyway, you probably think that something is missing, but don’t know, where and how to start. That is where creativity comes to the rescue.
By being more creative, we are allowing us to also be open to new ideas, new activities, new poses, new experiences – and that is exciting.
So, are you ready to change up your sex routine and experience new things?
Don’t be shy about saying yes. “People are more likely to enjoy sexual experiences that feel new and exciting, rather than stale and boring.”
Here are 7 quick tips how to increase your creativity in your sexual life.
1. Understand Your Sexual Desire
2. Discover the Power of Sexual Fantasy
3. Turn Your Lovemaking into a Tantric Experience
4. Use Tools to Guide Your Creativity
5. Incorporate Oral Sex
Although becoming more and more common, oral sex still is a tabu among many couples, but it should not be like that.
Oral sex is a wonderful way of not only spicing things up, but it can be a form of foreplay, a form of teasing before the main event, and a form of receiving (and giving) mind-blowing orgasms.
So, use this "tool" as an excellent addition to your sexual life, and get creative!
6. Make a Sex Bucket-List
In addition to talking about fantasies, you can write them down, and make it into one big, sexy bucket list of things you wish to do at least once in your lifetime.
You may not be able to do everything in that list, but just by making the list, it will open your mind to imagination and creativity.
To make this task even hotter and exciting, you can write some of the things together, and some - just by yourselves and present to each other as a surprise.
7. Know How to Keep Your Relationship Healthy