So, read on and find out some simple yet effective tips you can do to keep the passion alive and strong in your relationship after the baby comes into your life.
*Tips are not sorted in any particular order. These tips mostly apply to parents with newborns and toddlers.
Read time: approximately 10 minutes.
How to Keep the Passion Alive After Having a Baby
1. Be Open and Honest with Your Partner About Your Sex Life
2. Find Your Way Back to Sexual Intimacy
3. Have More Intimate Moments with Your Partner
4. Make the Most of Your Sexual Energy
I think a lot of women feel like they don't have energy, and they might feel like their sexual energy is gone because they haven't been in a state of arousal in months.
Quick tips on how to help your partner feel sexy for you
There are many ways to get your loved one sexually excited and to keep her feeling sexy all the time.
You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know how to turn your other half on, but sure, it is also not as simple as one would want.
You’ll find out what turns her on very quickly if you try something new. Don’t be afraid to experiment and it’s okay to play with your partner’s body and tease her, but don’t be rough.
You have to find the right way that works in your relationship or marriage – that is scheduling a night to connect, offering to take care of family dinner, or you can change the daily tasks, so both of you don’t feel overtired, or other things you would love that your spouse would do for you.
5. Plan Sex Like There’s no Tomorrow
6. Do What Feels Good
7. Don't be afraid to ask for a little help
Yes, it is true that the new human that came into your life is your responsibility, and you as parents are the ones who need to take care of him/her. BUT that does not mean you cannot ask for help.
Actually, it is extremely important for your well-being to ask for help. Firstly, ask your spouse to help out with the things you cannot deal with.
Then most likely you have some family members (your parents, siblings, cousins) that could babysit at least a couple of times per month.
If not, then you could turn to your friends in the local community. You could be pleasantly surprised, at how much others are willing to help out if asked nicely.
8. Play the New-Parent Game
The New-Parent Game is exactly what it sounds like – it is a game created particularly for new parents. Its intent is to make the lives of new parents better, and also bring back the spark into their relationship or marriage.
The game has 30 Coupon cards and 20 Surprise cards, and 10 Blank ones for your imagination. The cards are the perfect mix of allowing you and your partner to reduce the daily stress of having a baby, with letting them know how much you love them.
You can choose to play this game as a fun activity to keep things lighthearted, or you can use it as a tool to improve your relationship or marriage. This game is great for new parents, married couples, and parents who need to communicate better.
New parents are often stressed out and overwhelmed when they first become parents. This game will help them feel more relaxed, and in turn, their relationship or marriage will improve.
A fun way to introduce new parents to the world of parenting! If you need to communicate better with your partner or with other people in your life, this is the perfect game for you.
9. Be Open to New Ideas
10. Keep the Romance Alive
Sexual intimacy and romance truly go hand in hand. If the romance dies, the sexual tension falls as well.